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🔐 Private groups only

Book your Private Grown-Up Playdate

Because adults need playdates too🎈

Stop the WhatsApp group drama.


"We should totally do a weekend together!"

But: Different schedules. Endless messages. No decisions.

No one wants to be the "travel agent." And the dream stays stuck in a group chat scroll.

👉This time, it WILL happen.

WHAT IS A PRIVATE GUP?

A Private Grown-up Playdate is a fully privatized, all-inclusive weekend
curated exclusively for your group.

No logistics.
No mental load.
No compromises.

Just a beautiful place, great food, fun experiences…
and real time together.

Whether you are organizing a Bachelorette party or just a reunion with your favorite humans, we handle EVERYTHING so you can handle the fun.

👉 You choose. We organize. You enjoy.

WHAT YOU GET

  • 🔐 YOUR group only

    Fully privatized experience. No other group of people.

  • 👸 Full Service

    We find the perfect venue, we handle the food, the drinks, and the whole planning

  • ✨Signature Activities

    Private Pole Dance discovery, wine tasting, or creative workshops. You choose the flavor of your weekend.

  • 🪡 Tailor-made

    We adapt to your group size, your vibe (chill or party), your budget and any requirement you might have.
Get your weekend planned

You arrive at a beautiful house with your friends.

Music in the background. A drink in your hand.

No one is asking: “What are we eating?”

No need the take the lead on the next activity.

Because it’s already done.

You laugh. You try something new. You relax.

Time slows down.

👉 This is what a GUP feels like.

The Signature Experience : Pole Dance

Try a fun, empowering experience you probably wouldn’t try on your own.

No level required. Zero pressure.

A taste of the region

Discovery of the closest vineyards, a private tasting experience — without the snobbery.

And everything in between

Cozy, elegant and intimate atmosphere surrounded by nature

Pools, garden, chill areas

Games, nature walks, aperos, karaoke…

Everything is designed to create real moments together.

No stress. No pressure. No overthinking.

Just a weekend you’ll actually remember.

Perfect for

✔️ Bachelorette parties

✔️ Birthday weekends

✔️ Friends or family reunions

✔️ "We just need a break" weekends

👉 Or simply… no reason at all.

If you’ve ever said:“We should really do a weekend like this"…

👉 This is it. Let’s make it happen

How does it work ?

  1. You fill out the form and share your wishes
  2. We get in touch
  3. You receive a tailored proposal
  4. You validate => we handle everything
  5. You show up with your group
Get a personalized proposal

📩 CONTACT

Questions?

📩 email: polematters@gmail.com
📸 Instagram: @grownup.playdates

Q&A

How many people can we be?


Most weekends are designed for groups of 6 to 12 people to keep the experience intimate and high-quality.
Have a different group size? We’ll adapt.

Do we need to organize anything ourselves?

No. That’s the whole point.

We handle the venue, food, drinks, activities, logistics… everything.

👉 You just show up and enjoy your friends.

What does 'All-Inclusive' really mean?

It means once you arrive, you can put your wallet away. Accommodation, all meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner), snacks, drinks (including wine/softs), and all planned activities are included.

Can we customize the weekend?

Yes — 100%.

You choose:

  • the vibe (chill, party, mix)
  • you validate the activities
  • we adapt to your budget

We design the weekend around your group.

Is it only for bachelorette parties?

Not at all.

It’s perfect for:

  • birthdays
  • reunions
  • “we need a break” weekends
  • or simply… an excuse to see your friends

(No ring required.)

Do we need to be sporty?

Not at all.

Everything is designed to be:

  • fun
  • accessible
  • zero pressure

The goal is to enjoy, not to perform.

How much does it cost?

It depends on:

  • group size
  • location
  • activities

👉 We send you a personalized proposal based on your needs.